The Dangers and Expressions of Anger
To a party of Christmas, a provoked brother stabbed his junior the one to the death. It was stopped, was tried and was condemned to the life imprisonment for the homicide by indiscretion. In the prison, it regrets his duty of irregular behavior to irritate. The family pains for the double tragedy that hit the family.
The modern media with his lively representation of violence paint the anger as a heroic quality, as the basic psyche of the man macho. But is this really? Most of the people recognize that in the true anger of life is not a pleasant emotion, nevertheless they savor the violent scenes in the films. And then, strangely enough, they wonder why they themselves, in the anger crises, speak such words and do such actions that break the hearts of their a magnet and that they regrets themselves bitterly later.
Anger breaks hearts and demolishes houses. When enslaved by anger, the people attack violently, injures and of others to kill 'sometimes their a magnet. The violent heroism in the high media thus the violent crime in the corporation. Anger is also a known cause of a big variety of ailments that spread high arterial tension to the heart assaults. Anger can take to all the forms of conflicts that spread petty quarrels to the World War.
Of more the depression, a health mental soaring modern challenge, originates in anger. When the one is incapable to vent out the anger on the perceived cause of frustration, the one the vent out on oneself to enter into a pity mentality on oneself and oneself agony, that is typical depression.
Thus anger destroys reputations, the careers, the families and lives. Not astonishing that the bhagavad-gita (16,21) describes the anger as "one of the portals that take the hell".
The bhagavad-gita (2,62) describes the psychological origin of anger. When our desires, our projects and our hopes for the check and pleasure are foiled, resentment and frustration express itself by the hard words and/or the violent actions.
The one tries to satisfy his thirst, and when it do not can, anger and eagerness present themselves. A healthy man of spirit that does not want to glide down below to the layered type of life must try to renounce the three enemies, thirst, eagerness and anger, that can kill the oneself to such not at all that there will be not possibility of liberation of this material tangle.
How can we treat anger? Thomas Jefferson suggests, "When upset, the account ten before you speak; so very upset, the account hundred". Consciemment to delay the action is useful in to verify the angry explosions. It said that the one should not speak when the one is angry, the one right away should drink also a glass of water.
Anger, the burning being, can be cooled by a small one stuffed of water. And a witty transformation of our emotions can uproot completely anger. We are all the souls, the witty and eternal children God. Our heart finds the accomplishment only when we do God our first love in life and we can be right away free of the contamination of this terrible one of sinned and constant disagreement, and little by little the increase to the state of transcendence and returns to the Divinity.
By the pass process to see the holy names and propagating also to sing it holy names of the can of Lord immunized us of all the effects of this dangerous age. Of more the knowledge than no upheaval or the ambitious equipment can threaten our internal wealth of devotedness gives us an unshakeable interior security, that does not irritate can shake. Even before we attain this quiet state, the devotedness generates the maturity date and witty stability inside us. Warned is forearmed.
Often we devote themselves to anger because we do not recognize the danger of anger. When we awaken our sleeping witty devotedness while singing the holy names of God, especially the maha-mantra of Krishna of Hare, Krishna of Hare of Krishna of Hare, the Hare of Hare of Krishna of Krishna, Rowed Hare of Oar of Hare, the Hare of Hare of Oar of Oar, this devotedness us strong fact to the bottom and wise to the head.
We develop the discrimination to anticipate provocative positions, the spirit opening to see the other not at all of view of the person and the assurance to present our view point without becoming aggressive. The Vedic writings describes the history of a Mrigari of violent sadistic hunter that does the animals of half murder and appreciates to see that the suffering to the death. But when it was lit up by the big municipal Title of wise Narada and given strength while singing names of Oar, it became if controlled that it avoided carefully to walk even on an ant.
Will not our world be a better place if more of people was transformed of even? Charity begins to the house. Why do not we begin with ourselves? Why not to begin this transformation process today, the earlier the better. Life is short and precious, and more precious if it is used in the service of the Lord. The time and the tide does not await any man!
Posted on January 26, 2010.